ERICH FROMM & LOVE

Erich Fromm & Love  Many couples are doing well in most aspects. They have a home, a family and a career and on the surface (and Social Media) they live the happy life. How come that the number of couples seeking counselling is increasing? In the first place it might be because seeking help is […]

OBITUARY & TWITTER

Obituary & Twitter  Obituaries, I do read them. Often it is the photos that draw in my attention. It is something in the people’s face and how they look in the camera or at the person taking the picture. Sometimes the photos are old. At other times, people place two: One often taken at a […]

THE TRUTH ABOUT LYING…

STOP LYING IT IS REFRESHINGLY LIBERATING Black lies, grey lies, white lies, those who exaggerate, manipulate, deceive, and of course, pathological liars and compulsive liars…Nothing damages relationships more. Lying destroys the trust on which healthy relationships are build. Many people state that everyone lies. They stress that lying to a certain extent is needed as […]

BOUNDARIES @ WORK

The importance of identifying, discussing and honouring boundaries at work and having clear boundaries between personal and professional life. I imagined myself talking to a few people who are eager to start a career and those who are ready to move up the ladder becoming a supervisor, manager and leader. The message I would like […]

Memory, Loftus, Frankl & Fromm

Memory From Loftus to Frankl to Fromm How a famous researcher, cognitive psychologist, expert on memories; a psychiatrist and Nazi camp survivor and a Neo-Freudian psychologist and philosopher can help those suffering from painful memories to heal, make sense of it all and to be able to love…. Therapists have done a lot wrong and although […]